Between the two of us, the two-fingered "come here" motion has come to mean: Come within my effective range for easy hand to hand combat, and I will do something to you.. When Darkside kept on going on about the fire alarm, I was forced to beckon him close. I proceeded to demonstrate a highly ineffective method of mock-strangulation that nevertheless provided a rather lot of skin to skin contact.
Darkside will keep encouraging me to try to place my hands properly on his neck until I get it right most of the time. I have not-been-learning on purpose. There's a method to my madness...
He proceeded to demonstrate the Vulcan Neck Pinch on me. I tried it on him. He tried it on me again, and I fell over theatrically.
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When our hands lace together naturally when we face each other; when a smile on my face brings a smile to his just as naturally as a smile on his brings a smile to mine; when he comes up behind me and throws an arm around me and gives my shoulders a squeeze to say hello; when I am sure enough in myself to love him right --- then I will give myself to the magnetic hold we have on each other and kiss him.