It's the ex-girlfriend of the nutjob that I'm searching on who's of the same first name as that other, phone-weird nutjob, and she's telling me that she now works with swallowtayle's ex-boyfriend, who, incidentally, is also my ex-boyfriend.
Evidently my bedroom prowess is legendary.
She'll say hi to him, and say that I'm doing OK. Man. Old connections. I haven't seen him since sometime in 2000.