I seem to have come back on-list, though still in lurker-mode, with the official Lois McMaster Bujold fan list (archives available at http://www.dendarii.com). That was a significant part of my growing up, it was, both the books, and the list.
I abandoned it for more than a year when I got with BJ. Mistake.
I'm back, though, now, which is a good thing. Lots of nice smart people there.