There are many Xander Moments, moments of foot-in-mouth so bad that evidently one says, "I should not be talking!", when there is a discussion of possible roommate-ness, and also a mention of roommate/bedroom/bathroom dynamics in the absence of a romantic-type relationship.
Silly quote from the event: "I followed the train of thought to the station and read the sign."
There was much giggling.
The message "I'm not expecting a romantic-type relationship if this should happen, but wouldn't be averse to that happening" was, fortunately for all, received loud and clear through the evident Xander Moment-ness, and was taken as intended, innocently and flatteringly.
But. Xander moment. New vocabulary.