In my lofty position as chickfriend to an assortment of geekboys, and also geek and liking the ladies myself, I consider myself both in and out of the position of Actual Female. I have Female Perspective on some things, but I don't consider myself in the class when I'm giving the geekboys advice on the ladies.

's weird.

Part of this is because I am not standard-issue female, and some things that typically work on the subset of "the ladies" that they're going after just don't work on me, and some of the things I utterly dig are not things that their special interest subset of "the ladies" just don't dig.

It's weird.