I've now got playlist bunnies for three distinct mixes:
Bondmate Mix: songs of special meaning between Darkside and me, even if only on my end of the bond. Not necessarily related in any way to love, just significant in some weird way.
Traditional Love Mix: my favorite love songs.
Screwed-Up Love Mix: Includes things like "If you love somebody, set them on fire", and "They'll Need a Crane."