I've been asked by people who I respect to not add to the drama.
In case anyone has had any conclusionconfusion (teach me to post when tired and all that good stuff) about my role in all this: I am not a member of the Abuse team; all my involvement in this has been observation and speculation, with a side of asking nosy questions and doing my best to try and figure out what is going on. If I had all the information there is about this, I wouldn't be as bloody confused as I am right now. I seem to not have much information at all.
I'm'a be over there now, with the hot mint tea and yummy chocolate chip cookies and anime and stuff.